It is a day where loved ones will buy roses, chocolates or write letters to their loved ones. I got a Valentine’s wish from a friend. It felt so nice to see on my phone that I had received a message. I opened the message and lo and behold it was a wish from a lovely friend.
I hope everyone can show love to their loved one all year round and not only on 1 day a year. Don’t wait for the designated day, it might be too late. Say “I love you” everyday. Show your love everyday by caring and giving to the person you are caring for. Actions are great, but sometimes we also want to hear the words.
And don’t wait for that special occasion to say those important words. It might be too late and you will never ever get to say the words to that special person. Love everyday. Life is too short.
It’s time for our next tissue salt…Kali mur. – Kalium Muriaticum
This tissue salt is a decongestant, a second stage inflammation reduce and a waste eliminator.
I need to add that I always used this when I got a cold and my nose and sinuses became very congested. It worked like a bomb. It’s more effective than pharmaceutical decongestants and without the side affects.
When you have the flu, your nose is all congested and there is a thick mucus discharge, your throat is sore, your eyes are having a discharge, your tonsils are swollen with pustules or you are experiencing crackling noises in the ears then Kali Mur is for you. Take 2 tablets every 20 minutes for 2 hours and slowly extending to every 3 hours.
If you are experiencing heartburn, burping, take 2 tablets 3 to 4 times a day.
Kali mur. aids the skeletal system and the joints in numerous ways. If you are experiencing backache, shoulder pains, stiffness and arthritis pains take Kali mur. to sooth the pain.
Information taken from Tissue Salts for healthy living by Margaret Roberts
Flowers come in so many colours and fragrances and when they start to bloom, we know spring is here. Flowers bring life and colour to a room.
The elderly will benefit from having flowers in the house. Flowers can boost a person’s mood and reducing the risk of depression, and flowers can have a positive effect on a person’s physical health.
When a person receives a flower or bunch of flowers, they are filled with joy and happiness. Flowers have also been known to improve a person’s social interaction.
Certain fragrances of flowers can have an effect on a person just as much as the sight of them.
Rose can have anti-depressant effect on a person and it calms or uplifts the mood.
Lavender has a relaxing fragrance. It has been known to improve sleep quality.
Jasmine is a great favorite among many people. The fragrance has calming effects and it will reduce blood pressure and stress levels. It is also known to reduce the heart rate and breathing rate.
Lilies are lovely flowers to look at and admire. The benefits of the lily’s fragrance are numerous: they reduce stress, reduce anxiety, and reduce drepression. They also provide positive effects on the human body and health by enhancing and encouraging relaxation, boosting energy and encouraging positive feelings.
Frangipani helps with fighting depression.
Flowers are important to have on display in the home, whether they are artificial flowers or real, they will benefit you and the elderly person you care for. The real flowers have fragrances and that is an added bonus. Work with the elderly person when arranging the flowers in a vase, or include them in the choosing of the flowers when you go buy from a store. And if you are going to hand pick flowers from the fields, farm or your backyard, include the elderly in the choosing of the varieties. It will be a lovely way to spend time together.
I love the ocean. I enjoy swimming a few laps and then just lay in the water looking at the sky. Not everyone loves the ocean and not everyone can stand the cold water on their skin. The elderly are no different. Some may enjoy the cool water on their ankles and others may not. If your parent used to enjoy swimming, why not take them to beach? Let them enjoy the cool water on their skins. The benefits of ocean water will also benefit them. Note: One can mix their own salt and water at home and add a little epsom salt if you are too far from the ocean or landlocked.
Just be cautious and observant with your parent’s balance when walking on the sand. It is not a firm or solid ground and they might lose balance often and falling might result in twisted ankles or fractured hips.
But don’t let this fear stop your elderly parent from having fun. Let them also experience the benefits of ocean water on their skins. Just be careful with mobility.
The ocean has many benefits on the human body:
The salty ocean water provides minerals that benefit the skin. Here are a few minerals found in the water: magnesium, calcium, and potassium. These all help to treat skin infections, absorb toxins in and on the body, encourages the skin to heal and works to treat eczema.
Ocean water helps to soothe itchy, flaky or dry scalp.
The ocean sounds can help to reduce stress and encourages a person to relax. There is that calm quiet and peaceful feeling oceans bring to a person.
Ocean/sea air is very beneficial for the respiratory organs. The air causes the mucus in the lungs and bronchiole tracts to loosen and this makes coughing easier and it will encourage the airways to become clear. The sea air is also free of pollution and this makes it free from harmful particles.
Ocean air improves circulation in the body.
Ocean air improves sleeping habits.
One way that the ocean can indirectly benefit an elderly person, is that you get bonding time together. You have a chance to get a change of scenery and spend time together while you sit on the beach, or in the car. You both will benefit from the outing together.
I do understand that not everyone can get to the ocean or seaside, so if that is the case for you here is what you could do to set the ‘seaside’ scene. Play some ocean sounds on a ipad, tablet, laptop or CD, sit together and let the sounds flow over you. You can enjoy a cup of tea, or a cold beverage while listening to the ocean sounds. One can even get some builder’s ‘white’ sand and put your feet into it. There are a few ways to set up your own home beach. Don’t forget sunscreen if you sit outside.
I love the sound of people laughing and being happy. I can’t go through my day without laughter. Laughter is the best medicine in the world for the human body and the best thing about it is that it’s free. The human body cannot distinguish between a real laugh or a fake laugh. Laughter stimulates the motor region of our brain to become active and that produces the physical reaction – the sound of laughing.
Laughter has many health benefits:
Laughter boosts our heart rate.
Laughter boosts the production of certain antibodies that are responsible for boosting our immune systems.
Laughter reduces stress hormones – cortisol and epinephrine
Laughter releases endorphines which are responsible for relieving the body of physical pain.
Laughter protects the human heart by improving the function of the blood vessels and increasing the blood flow. This will lower your risk of a heart attack and other heart problems.
Laughter can burn unwanted calories. 13 minutes of laughter burns around 40 calories.
Laughter can calm anger. It is the hardest benefit of laughter as one needs to laugh when they feel angry and that is not easy. Great news about the human body: it can’t distinguish between a real or fake laugh. So when you feel angry, fake laugh and you will start laughing for real and the anger will subside.
Laughter is great medicine for cancer victims. It has been noted that those suffering with cancer who laugh are able to cope better with pain and it provides them with a better sense of wellbeing.
The elderly sometimes struggle with the basic everyday activities, equipment and routines. It is very frustrating to not to be able to do what you need to do and to not be able to do it in a reasonable time frame.
There are a few things that one can do or use to make life a little easier for the person involved.
Zippers: Zippers can be very fiddly and small. This makes it difficult for people with arthritis or shakes to close and open them. If you thread a piece of twine through the zipper easier to grab. You can also use can opener rings or a keyring.
Canes: Keep a cane or walking frame in every room in the house. This might sound strange, but people who need a walking stick or frame, forget that they are needing the aid to move around safely. Keep the cane or frame in a noticeable spot by the door.
Notices:Keep a white board in a prominent place in the house. On the board, you can write the day’s agenda or important events that are to happen during the day. Keep the information simple and straight to the point, put the date and times next to relevant information and use clear font.
Dressing: If the person is still able to dress themselves, but seem to have a problem getting the order of the clothes right or leaving off garments, here is a tip. Put the clothing out the night before and put it in the order that one will put them on to dress. Also leaving sticky notes with numbers on for the order of dressing, will be very helpful.
TV remotes: All those little buttons are very confusing to the elderly. Mark the buttons that are needed to change the sound, channel and power button with a marker. Or you can do it in reverse and mark the buttons that are not needed to change channels, change volume or power on or off.
Drinking glasses:Glass or plastic drinking cups can be very slippery to hold. This problem can be solved by using a few rubber bands. Put 2 or 3 rubber bands around the glass and this will help with the slipperiness of the cup.
Doorknobs:Round doorknobs are not easy for arthritic hands to grab. They can make opening and closing doors very hard and frustrating for those people who have limitations to their finger joints. Try using foam tubing and a cable tie to improve the grip of the doorknob.
Clothing Hangers:Clothing hangers can be a little tricky for those who don’t have their full balance or if they are a little on the shorter side. Hang a hanger on a hanger in the cupboard. It is not the neatest way to arrange your cupboard, but it will make it easier to take a hanger down and then re-hang it.
All of us have to at one time or another needed to lift or transfer a person. Whether we have had to move a person up in the bed, transfer from the bed to a chair, we are going to need to lift the weight. Don’t lift alone if it can be helped. But sometimes we do need to lift and we are alone. I am going to give you some tips on how to lift in the correct way and not hurt yourself.
First things: If the person is very heavy, being uncooperative or in a difficult position, don’t try to lift alone. Ask a neighbour to help or a friend.
Right, let us start on the lifting techniques:
Always lift with your knees.
Don’t bend at the waist.
Don’t ever twist your spine when lifting or carrying a person.
Your feet need to be kept shoulder width apart.
The leg muscles are the best muscles to use when lifting or pulling.
Keep the person who is being lifted close to your body.
How do you sit a lying person up in bed? Let me explain:
Bend the knees of the laying person. Place the crook of your arm in the armpit of the person you are wanting to lift. With the other hand, support behind the head. Let the person hold onto your arm and then slowly sit the person up and pop a pillow in behind the back and neck.
How do you transfer a person from the bed to the chair?
Sit the person on the edge of the bed so that their feet are flat on the floor. Place your one knee in between the knees of the person you are wanting to lift, and you other knee on the outside of the knees of the person you are lifting (it will be 1 your knee, 1 patient knee, 1 your knee and then 1 patient knee). Ask the elderly person to hold you around your neck with both of his/her hands. You need to hold the elderly person around the waist and interlock your fingers at their back. Remember not to twist your spine! Bend at the knees and lift the person up and slowly swing them until they are directly in front of the chair they are going to sit on. Slowly let the person sit down.
There are a few equipment that will make lifting and transfers easier for you. And some can be found in the house.
Transfer boards – a board that is smooth, thinner wood and has a grip on the ends. This board allows you to slid a person from one piece of furniture to another with minimal lifting.
Lifting/transfer belt – this belt takes the weight of the person being lifted, off your body.
Hoists are a little pricey, but these aid in lifting a person from almost any position and it can also be useful with bathing a lame person.